What Is the Best Thing That Could Happen?

 

     "What is the worst thing that could happen?" I asked my friend on the phone.

     Fear tends to cripple us with that question—all the ways we could fall, could fail. But when we speak the "worst possible scenario" out loud, it suddenly sounds silly and small.

     So speak it.

     The worst-case scenario is often so extreme that we can identify it as totally unrealistic and even laughable. This game of "worst-case scenario" we play with ourselves minimizes fear and removes doubt. Indeed, many times it even leads to a sigh of relief afterward.

     Whether in social situations or making life decisions, our fears are not as scary when we vocalize them.

     Take a moment to consider the thing that you are most afraid of right now. Then imagine the worst possible outcome of that circumstance and speak it out loud. Even better, tell a friend who can remind you how unrealistic this worst-case scenario is.

• Is it being fully seen and known? Worst-case scenario: they walk away.
• Is it giving your career a full shot? Worst-scenario: you end up doing something else.
• Is it taking a break to balance work with a little bit of rest? Worst-case scenario: your assignment is turned in late.

     None of these will end you. None of these will ruin everything. Though it may feel like darkness is closing in, that is merely the fear in your head.

     Now, I want to challenge you to instead think of the best-case scenario.

• You are fully seen and known, establishing community, connection, and love within a family.
• You pour your heart into your job as a passion project, becoming excited to go to work each day.
• You find peace in the midst of a world that cannot slow down, and your breathing is easier.

     Wherever you find yourself, consider the worst-case scenario and laugh. Then consider the best-case scenario and give it a go. Take the next step. Fall in love. Go to the interview. Create a new routine where rest is a rhythm rather than an anomaly.

All photo creds: Abigail Cole

     You won't regret being bold in the face of fear and anxiety that threatens to steal your joy.

"For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control."

2 Timothy 1:7, ESV

~Madeline

     Psst...feeling brave? Let me know in the comments what fear you are overcoming. Be as general or specific as you'd like.