Last month I read The Dating Manifesto by Lisa Anderson, and I promised a review to my newsletter subscribers. I love the subtitle of this book: A Drama-Free Plan for Pursuing Marriage with Purpose.
I gave this book four out of five stars in my mind. It is geared for people in their 20-40s. It takes a very Biblical view of dating and relationships, which is why it's not talking to teenagers.
You don't need to date him. You don't need to obsess with him. If you're high school or younger, this applies to you for sure. If you're not ready for marriage, you're not ready for dating.
Because dating is getting to know someone to see if he is potential husband material. It's not just to have fun or to hang out.
Do your best not to make enemies with guys, but remember that most guys, if not every guy you meet, is someone else's future spouse.
Remember to protect his heart. True love is putting someone else's needs before your own. You wouldn't want girls flirting with your brother, so don't flirt.
The girl's job, especially in middle school and high school, is to wait patiently. Romance will come in time, but you're too young for it right now.
20-40s people (who this book is actually geared toward),
This book is for you whether you're in a relationship or not. This book is for you whether you're a tomboy or princess. This book is for you whether you've grown up in the church or not. There is grace here. You can be anyone, and this book is for you.
Girls and guys. College kids and spinsters. You have hope, and you have a future. This book never really said anything I disagreed with. It made me think about my friends young and old who could benefit from it.
The author is in her 40s I believe, but she is still single and still hoping to get married. I have so much respect for her. She hasn't given up on the dream God has put in her heart. She reminds me a little bit of one of my favorite single bloggers, Annie F. Downs
I highly recommend this drama-free book with realistic expectations, good stories, and plenty of Scripture-based content.
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